Dit artikel is verschenen in Lilith nr 14,
November/December 1997
Gedichten
 
THE ART OF NOT BEING THERE 
In fighting, one of the best places to be is behind your opponent. 
In this course we will learn to move to the angle, retreat past 
and behind our opponent. This course can be useful to all styles 
and levels and can accomodate all abilities. 
So I fight 
with one 
hand and 
love with the 
other. 
In some of my 
dreams tho, 
I love with both hands 
and the fighting is over. 
NO MEANS NO! SETTING LIMITS AND VERBAL SELF-DEFENSE 
Succesful self-defense begins with a belief in oneself. Each of us 
has to decide that we are in control of our own life and our own 
bodies. Setting limits with friends, aquaintances and strangers 
prevents us from being targeted for attack, while at the same time 
builds selfesteem and confidence. 
I am 
a woman whose body shows 
the way a woman 
shapes 
the air around her 
and takes up all 
the space she wants 
the woman is walking for all freedom 
the woman strolls for all daugthers 
the woman is brave as she takes 
what we all would take: 
an easy walk in the night 
 
Wie wil meedoen aan niet te fanatiek zelfverdediging - sport 
(karate?) vrouwengroepje in A'dam? bel Helga 020-6252167.
Dit artikel is verschenen in Lilith nr 14,
November/December 1997